If you're in a toxic relationship and you don't know what to do about it, then this post is for you. We're gonna give you some tips about some red flags you might be noticing with your partner and what you can do to get out of the situation you're in.
1. Relationships are a TWO-WAY Street!!
If you feel that you are the only one putting in effort all of the time, then you need to talk with your partner about it. Somedays your relationship isn't going to be 50/50 in the effort category. Your partner might be able to only give 10% one day, that means you need to step up and give the other 90%, vise versa. But if you start to notice a trend in your partner of not seeming to care, be interested in you or your conversations, or if you feel like you guys are always fighting. Then it might be time to call it quits. It is one thing to have diversity and disagreements in a relationship but it is never ok to consistently fight to the point where the both of you argue just to argue.
2. Snapchat Relationships are NOT Real Relationships
If a guy/girl snapchats you a lot and they flirt with you and tell you they love you over the phone, but in person, they don't associate with you that way (especially in front of their friends) then you're most likely not in a real relationship with commitment. In relationships your partner should want to show you off in front of their friends, have your picture as their screensaver, post pictures of you publicly, etc.
3. Red Flag in Your Relationship
If you are just in the beginning stages of a relationship but you both have made it clear that you are dating a huge hint about there not being any commitment is that if your partner doesn't post anything on social media about you and they are the person who posts and has the accounts, it is definitely a red flag that you might not be the only one with your partner. Because if they don't post any pictures of the two of you then they might be doing that so the other person doesn't see it.
4. How to Get Out of The Situation
If you have come to the decision that you want to get out of the relationship, first thing to know is that you should never break up with someone over text. Make plans to get coffee or meet somewhere privately, and when you're telling them, don't just throw it in their face but don't beat around the bush. Make sure that you're clear about wanting to break up, so there isn't any confusion. As hard as it is, try not to say, "We can still be friends". It is going to be so much easier on the both of you to make a clean cut and not be in any contact with each other. It takes 21 days to break a habit so as hard as it is, don't text or call them.
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